DonBrown
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Engineering capstone. We're building a prototype for a assistive device. Simple concept. Good cause. Terrible team dynamics. 
We have 5 people. 5 opinions. Every decision turns into a 2-hour debate about "what if we tried..." and "maybe we should consider..." and "has anyone thought about..." YES. WE'VE THOUGHT. NOW DECIDE.
I made a Gantt chart in week 1. Beautiful. Color-coded. Realistic deadlines. It's now week 8 and we're still stuck on things that should have been decided in week 3. My chart is basically fiction at this point.
The worst part is that everyone wants to be "involved" in every decision. No trust. No delegation. Just endless meetings where we all stare at each other and nothing gets resolved.
I tried being the "leader" and making executive decisions. Got accused of being "controlling." I tried stepping back and letting others lead. Nothing happened. I'm trapped between doing everything myself and watching us fail.
How do you make progress in a team that can't make decisions? How do you move forward when everyone wants a say in everything? I need strategies from people who've survived group projects worse than mine.
We have 5 people. 5 opinions. Every decision turns into a 2-hour debate about "what if we tried..." and "maybe we should consider..." and "has anyone thought about..." YES. WE'VE THOUGHT. NOW DECIDE.
I made a Gantt chart in week 1. Beautiful. Color-coded. Realistic deadlines. It's now week 8 and we're still stuck on things that should have been decided in week 3. My chart is basically fiction at this point.
The worst part is that everyone wants to be "involved" in every decision. No trust. No delegation. Just endless meetings where we all stare at each other and nothing gets resolved.
I tried being the "leader" and making executive decisions. Got accused of being "controlling." I tried stepping back and letting others lead. Nothing happened. I'm trapped between doing everything myself and watching us fail.
How do you make progress in a team that can't make decisions? How do you move forward when everyone wants a say in everything? I need strategies from people who've survived group projects worse than mine.